last high king of the Noldor,
herald of Gil-Galad,
soldier during the War of the Last Alliance,
master of Imladris,
the greatest healer in Middle-Earth,
keeper of one of the three Elven rings of power,
devoted husband and father of three kick-ass kids (four if you count Aragorn),
advisor to both the company of Thorin and the fellowship of the ring,
was raised by two men and turned out just fine (see The Silmarillion, Chapter 24).
So yeah, stick that Old Toby in your pipe and smoke it.